HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL PART 2

IMPROVE YOUR MENTAL CAPACITY
How much of your time do you invest in things that are worthwhile? What kind of people take up the better chunk of your time? What kind of friends do you have? What do you do when you are with them, do they contribute meaningfully to your life or are they the kind that prefer to hang on the pavement of your street sitting on the unfinished block-fence cat-calling/whistling at women passing by, or the kind that show up at your house in the morning just to argue who is better between Messi and Ronaldo, Davido or Wizkid? Now ask yourself this. Do you think Messi argues who is better between him and Ronaldo? He does his argument in training and goes on the pitch to deliver. Davido does his argument by entering his studio and releasing hits. What is your argument? Gossip? Well then, are you doing better than Linda Ikeji now?

You have to learn how to maximize your opportunities to encounter success and you can’t do it surrounded by people who only dream but would not take a step to grab their future by the balls. What kind of man are you to be with? What are your activities during the day and during the night? If you were to invite people for a birthday party, what kind of people would show up for you? Decent people or Gangsters? Would it be an Intelligent gathering or a gathering of morons looking for cheap girls to devour? What kind of lifestyle do you want and what efforts are you making to turn it into reality? What kind of things would people say you have taught them in life? Who would call you their role model? These are the things you must work on. Start seeking to become a positive role model, watch enlightening media, seek the company of better people, inspire to improve the mind-set and lives of your current friends who are in your current situation and if they fail to adopt the change you advise, relocate if possible (mentally, spiritually or physically).

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